Sunday 24 March 2013

Opportunities Missed...

A weekend has passed following broadcaster John Laws comments questioning whether a caller, Carole, was at fault for the sexual abuse she suffered from age six. Laws is singularly unrepentant for both his line of questioning and the attitudes that underly it. Lashing out at critics he suggested that anyone who has a problem with the interview can "go to hell".

Almost a week gone and the issue slips quietly from the news agenda. Perhaps the greatest shame is the missed opportunity to honour the story of Carole and offer support to victims of sexual assault. By framing the interview around blame and provocation Laws has potentially scared women who are struggling with their own sexual assault, making them reluctant to report their abuser.

Rape and sexual assault are on agenda worldwide. In India the brutal gang rape and murder of a 23 year old woman sparked protests throughout the country aimed at better protection for women. While in the Maldives a 15 year old girl has been sentenced to 100 lashes for 'fornication' after suffering sexual abuse at the hands of her step-father.

These cases and thousands like them are often described as the product of outdated traditions and a lack of gender equality. Where women have relatively depressed financial and social situations they have less opportunity and inclination to report their attackers.

Meanwhile in Australia people ask if the work of feminism has been achieved?

The Australian Institute of Family Studies describes sexual assault as "one of the most underreported of all personal crimes". They report an estimated 44,100 persons over the age of 18 were victims of sexual assault in the reporting period of 2005. The Australian Institute of Criminology, in a 2001 report on 'Sexual Violence in Australia' report that 18% of Australian women have experienced sexual assault in their lifetime. In all these reports it is acknowledged that data gathering is can be limited and complicated by factors such as a reluctance to report. Therefore figures may be much higher.

Despite all this John Laws questioned Carole, a victim of sexual assault, as to whether she may have contributed to the assaults she experienced. Laws claims he was "keeping it light". Listening to the interview he sounds uncomfortable. What is not widely reported in the media is that Laws did acknowledge that Carole had gone through a terrible experience. Yet when Carole's voice becomes strained he does not stop. We have little knowledge as to whether Carole is really coping with her experience and Laws offered no support opportunities to listeners who may have experienced the same assault.

One of the greatest difficulties in combating sexual assault and rape is how often it goes unreported. Laws contributed to this phenomenon of underreporting by implying that the assault could in some way be the victims fault. In talking about 'attractiveness', he perpetuated the myth that some women are 'asking for it'.

Victims of sexual assault need support to take back the control and dignity that has been stolen from their lives. John Laws needs to shut up until he learns this...

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If this blogspot or any of the issues brought up by John Laws comments have affected you there are support services available in Australia:

Lifeline provide 24 hour crisis support on 13 11 14 
or visit their website at www.lifeline.org.au for a list of services available in your area.

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If you'd like to take action on this issue:

GetUp! and Destroy the Joint have a petition requesting Laws apologise
and undergo training to better support victims of abuse.

2 comments:

  1. The following is an email I sent to John Laws on the 6th April 2013 inviting him to have an expert on his program to discuss issues of child abuse and the impact on adult survivors:

    "Dear Mr Laws,

    I am writing to you to implore you to provide airtime for an interview with Cathy Kezelman from Adult Survivors of Child Abuse.

    www.asca.org.au

    This interview should be held to allow discussion following your on-air interview with Carole that covered issues of child-sexual abuse. This discussion needs to be held to support and honour persons who have experienced abuse in their life.

    Having reviewed your comments after the interview with Carole, I understand that you feel Carole suffered no ill-effects and had no problem with the interview tone and questions. Even if this were the case I would ask that you afford a forum to Cathy Kezelman to provide information for others abuse survivors.

    The issue of abuse is pervasive and insidious in our community. The Royal Commission into institutional abuse that commenced this week stands as testimony to the need for widespread community understanding. This can only begin when victims are no longer blamed.

    I would invite you to read and comment on my recent article regarding the opportunities to heal that are lost when we fail to deal with this issue:

    'Opportunites Missed..."

    Once again, please allow Cathy Kezelman airtime on your program.

    Sincerely
    Andrew Pople"

    Let's hope he responds positively...

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  2. Keeping you all updated - I received a reply from John Laws producer indicating they would be willing to give airtime to further this important discussion. Here's hoping it all goes ahead!

    "Hi Andrew,

    I've shown your email to John and he's happy to speak to Cathy Kezelman on the program this week.

    Would you be able to send me some details on Cathy so I can give him a bit of a background?

    Kind regards,

    Brighette Ryan
    John Laws Morning Show Producer"

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